What if the most powerful way to begin again isn’t to rush forward — but to return to your breath? In this New Year journal reflection, I share why I’m trading pressure for presence, performance for truth, and why winter is the perfect season to soften into the rhythm of who you’re becoming. For anyone craving a gentler start, this one’s for you.
Read MoreStillness Will Stay With Me
On the day of the Winter Solstice, we gathered in breath and stillness — not to become more, but to remember who we already are. This journal entry is an ode to the quiet power of pausing, the transformation that begins in the dark, and the breath that carries us forward with rhythm and reverence.
Read MoreThe Corridor of Becoming
This particular corridor — comet, new moon, solstice — opens an energetic opportunity:
✴︎ To shed what has grown heavy
✴︎ To claim the clarity we’ve resisted
✴︎ To plant what we want to rise with in spring
And not just in thought — but in our nervous systems. In our breath. In our bodies.
Read More🌬️ What My Breath Taught Me This Year
It taught me to breathe more honestly.
To let my exhale surrender the past I’d been dragging into present days.
To let the tears rise without fear of what they meant.
To meet parts of myself I’d expertly kept hidden in the folds of high-functioning, underbreathed strength.
🕯️ The Wisdom of the Winter Season
But the earth doesn’t sprint through the seasons.
She softens. She listens.
She lets things die.
She trusts that what rests now will rise later and when it does it will be as glorious if not more so than it was before.
A Recommitment to Words (and the Spaces Between Them)
I’m here.
Still breathing.
Still becoming.
Still committed to sharing what moves through me — so you might find your own reflection in the softness, too.
The Journey of a Lifetime - Continuous Unfolding
It is the invitation to remember that life is a continuous journey of never ending unfolding. So much so, that if we stop unfolding, we cease to live in that part of our lives.
Read MoreWill I EVER Learn?
I will apply the accumulated wisdom of my past experiences to my current understanding in order to avoid or restrict my exposure to repeating past mistakes. WHY WOULD I NOT?!!!
Why?
Could it be….because I am a human woman… a being that is on this earth to be bathed in experiences.
Read MoreI Got Lost
I had been feeling untethered and so I stepped away from the outside world.
I sat quietly with my breath and courted my thoughts.
Have you ever felt like you were running so fast in all the wrong directions? Doing all the things just the way other people told you to because you weren’t sure what else to do?
That was me.
I misplaced myself. I was caught up and lost touch with what I wanted from me. It was a feeling I did not enjoy even though it was a supersized invitation for me to shake up the game, and when I did, I found my way home.
Read MoreI Cried Today
I stand for being an active participant of the world who follows their desires into creation with the high levels of presence, intention, grace and performance as a beautiful way to celebrate the best of being human.
Read MoreEverything is Changing!
I love this game. It took me a while to warm up to just how vast this version of me could become. I am still exploring what it could mean for me now, in a month, in a year. It actually blows my mind how much space is mine to play with
Read MoreBursting with Pride (shared with Nialah’s permission).
The best part for me has been seeing the difference creating these therapeutic spaces has made
Read MoreOutlier
When we realise that there is power in being vulnerable, in owning the less enjoyable parts of ourselves and our pasts, then we can stop hiding away and running from what may be exposed. There is a sweet freedom in that. A sweet freedom in being fully embodied in our truth.
YES! You CAN!!!
I want you to know that your life was given to you with many gifts, with may challenges and obstacles, not to make it unnecessarily hard, but to always invite you to remember who you are, and that you have SO MUCH MORE available to you that you might remember in the tricky moments when your mind takes hold.
Read MoreProper Endings
It is super important for me now, especially in this liminal space, between worlds, as the old draws to a close and new eagerly awaits, to be purposive about how I move between the two. The seductive draw of leaping headlong into the new year and kicking away the current year without too much thought is strong.
Read MoreShin Shin Kaizen
What if making change gets to be really easy… Would that make it more desirable to you?
I first came across the concept and practice of Kaizen in my Compliance Executive days, (many moons ago). I spent some time working in a company that had many arms to its business, one being manufacturing high end frames and casings for artwork and many other interesting things.
The Kaizen (改善) approach was introduced to manufacturing processes to help them become more efficient. Kaizen is a Japanese word that means small and continuous (good) improvement. It was made well known in manufacturing as part of ‘lean manufacturing’, an approach developed by Toyota to reduce waste and defects whilst promoting productivity. The approach carries guiding principles based on inclusivity, curiosity, contribution and empowerment (beyond the scope of this share, but check it out if you are curious) which in essence, boil down to being actively present and aware of every part of the business whilst holding the belief that everything can be improved…..
Kaizen resurfaced as part of my Reiki studies. If you haven’t yet come across Reiki, it is a hands on healing system based on the teachings of Mikau Usui a Japanese teacher who rediscovered this ancient hands on healing potential through his study of scriptures and dedication to inner understanding. Reiki was brought to the west by Hawayo Takata and her teachings helped to support the exposure of the healing method outside of Japan.
The Reiki system consists of an integrated approach to changing one’s life which I learned as I moved beyond receiving Reiki sessions from a Reiki practitioner into studying. Level 1 Reiki is anchored in self healing (and sharing Reiki with those closest to us) which means daily self healing sessions, meditation and contemplation of the Reiki Precepts. It is from the Precepts (Codes of Practice) that the sentence shin shin kaizen Usui Reiki Ryoho is taken. The translation loosely invites in the idea of small and continual improvement of our minds (spiritual, mental and emotional) and bodies using the Reiki system as a way to attain true happiness and connection with our true nature.
A daily life long commitment to be with ourselves, to be aware of our habits, our automatic reactions, the places we hold ourselves captive and play small all the while knowing that through this level of awareness we have a choice, we have another way to approach ourselves and our lives. We have the option to be curious, we have the option to be tender, compassionate and kind, we have the inner resources to contribute meaningfully to who we want to be and how we want to be that way. This is a beautiful concept and approach to the inevitable human desires - finding happiness, purpose, meaning, fulfilment, following dreams and living a life that feels good to us, for us.
Because life offers so much distraction, minutes, hours, days, months and years can pass us by without us realising the incremental shifts we acquire until what we notice in our habits, or physical experience, or persistent thoughts, emotions and beliefs becomes overbearing and we want to ‘sort’ ourselves out right away… but that is not always possible. So many components intertwine to create who we are everyday that despite the idea of immediate resolution being enticingly attractive, it is not only not sustainable, it short changes us on the magic of getting to know and understand ourselves more deeply.
Presence and the awareness presence makes available is so simple and yet so life affecting and altering. Being with ourselves, noticing the little things in the misplaced moments where we shift into safety mode and pick the thing, thought, action, reaction, feeling that has always been there (even if we don’t like it, and we don’t really want it) changes everything. The little things add up to big things over time that add up to a lifetime of unwanted things if we lose connection with ourselves. So knowing that the same can be not only true, but powerfully true and effective in the reverse is the stuff of dreams.
Taking responsibility of who we are and choosing to say yes to simple, small changes every single day knowing that they may not rock our world overnight, but with dedication, devotion and commitment they amount to a tidal wave of effective and maintainable change on all levels of our being is delicious and it gets to contribute to a lifetime of intentional, deliberate living that shapes who you are…. Are you in?
What if the Grief is Complicated?
I am beginning to understand how time can suck the life out of us if we let it. How as we ‘mature’ the number of devastating things we experience chips away at our belief that life is supposed to be fun. That joy is our birthright and that even though it can be so hard, we can enjoy commensurate levels of happiness
Read MoreThe Breakfast Club
I started the Breakfast Club to offer a place for people to connect, come together, breathe, be supported, share and be seen in love, truth, non judgement and possibility - always possibility.
The Club without a direct intention became a home for exclusively women to breathe. This helped us to embody deeper characteristics of long forgotten sacred spaces where women could unburden freely. Where women could rekindle deep feminine power shared in unbridled truth. A space to explore, understand and see ourselves more clearly and have this reflected back to us.
Read MoreDepletion - Pay Attention to the Signs
Depletion stops you from being able to think straight, it stops you from being able to be fully present, it stops you from being able to enjoy the full potential of your life wherever you are along your journey. Depletion in energy, in time, in money, in emotion, in breath, in self awareness, in emotional intelligence in all the things that give life its richness and texture and my wish for you is that you are open to seeing that this is not something that you have to accept.
Read MoreThe Vibes NEVER Lie!
The thing is, the vibes NEVER lie, they never lead us astray, they always guide us towards the next steps, the ones we may not even know we need, the ones we probably won’t understand until hindsight brings 20/20 vision. And that’s how experiential we as humans are designed to be, to think the things, to learn, to remember, to grow and expand and to feel all the feels - it just wouldn’t be there if it wasn’t meant to be part of our life experience.
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